Friday, January 13, 2017

An incredible journey...

 Jake and I were invited by friends to join them for the Tsitsikamma Trail for New Year - it was completely out of the box for us, but the idea of an adventure always appeals and so we packed our bags as lightly as possible and headed for the beautiful Tsitsikamma mountains along the Garden Route...
 The trail begins from Nature's Valley and there was a definite buzz of excitement as we left the campsite and made our way to the start of the trail...
 The first day's walk was really uncomplicated.  We only walked 3.5km, mostly through forest and relatively flat.  Jake was having fun...
 We experienced our first little river crossing...
 And stopped to appreciate the late afternoon sunshine.  Hiking with loaded backpacks is a whole different story to going on a day hike...
 A backward glance to make sure that they haven't left me behind...
  That evening we walked down to the local beach to watch the sun set...
 We were excited about spending time together - away from TV and games and everything electronic.  No cell phone reception, so complete isolation...
 Scenes from the beach...
 Jake checking out the little snails in the sand...
 The colours were just unbelievable...
 Things got serious the next morning though...  We weren't aware of it when we got up and had coffee and breakfast, that the temperature was going to peak at 42 deg C and that we'd have 16.6kms to hike - with full backpacks, we were ill-prepared.  This is Jake during our first climb of the day.  He'd already started to lose his sense of humour and it was only about 7am...
 While you're walking, especially uphill, it's good to take a look around and remind yourself why you're actually putting yourself through this...
 Our first hut was near the beach, so this uphill was literally straight out of camp.  In the pic below, I was only about 5 steps above Jake - the hill was steep...
 Hot and bothered and facing more uphills - Jake and I were mostly at the back of the pack, but that was also fine, gave us more time together and saved everyone else from having to listen to me gasping for air, while motivating both of us up the climb...
 There are amazing things to see along the way.  Often you're so busy trudging and sweating up or down a hill, that you forget to look around.  Having Jake with me always reminds me to look - he sees things...
 Every now and then I'd get ahead and actually get a photo of Jake's face, not just his b-hind and he actually looked quite happy sometimes.  I think this was pulling into a picnic spot....
 Fungus...
 And more fungus...
 And great big millipedes...
 We walked through some forests, but less than we expected...
 A lot of the time was spent hiking through fynbos, which is low and bushy and gives no shade from the heat...
 When you find a pond that's got cold (icy) fresh water, everyone strips down and hops in to cool off...
 Despite moaning about walking, Jake made it his mission to climb up to the waterfall for the freshest water...
  It doesn't look big, but this toad was bigger than my hand...
 A pretty frog with a flower on his side...
 Some forest...
 It was getting hot (this is still day 1) and Jake wanted to get to the next hut.  We'd started to run out of water and had used the last bit to fill up with rehydrate to sip on...
 This part was tough.  It was after 12pm and the sun was out in full force.  The heat seemed to reflect off the pathway and we were HOT...
 Jake was just about to give up, but somehow he found his strength - possibly when some of our group came back to look for us with ice cold cooldrink and water.  They even carried our packs for a bit...
 Some views from our hut...
 This is the kitchen hut - our group was 11 and the dormitories sleep 24.  There were another 3 groups that joined us and we all got to know one another really well.  I mean, you have to share bathrooms, bedrooms, braais and kitchens...
 This is the dormitory, showing the view...
  The walking all feels worth it when you arrive at the hut and kick off your shoes.  You soon forget how hot and tired you were a few hours earlier and start planning for the next day's hiking.  Just below the Bloukrans hut is a pool to swim in.  Jake scrambled down there twice, so he couldn't have been that exhausted, right??
 As of Bloukrans, we had porters to carry our bulky gear, which meant that Jake could without a bag and I simply had to carry a day pack with food, water and cozzies.  It made all the difference.  That and the temperature had dropped down to 38 deg C...
 Our group having a water break in the shade...
 Swim time again...
 A not-so-pretty-make-up-free selfie.  I know it's not us looking our best (well me anyway), but I love this pic - it was a happy "holiday" ..
 Another lunch stop.  I thought I'd come home super skinny after having sweated and hiked so much, but you have to eat food to sustain you and so you land up eating high energy foods.  I didn't lose an ounce, but I do think my legs feel a lot stronger than before I left...
 And then back on the track...
 Filling up our water bottles.  Jake got about 17 mosquito bites doing this...
 Jake was such a hero on this hike.  It was very tough for all of us and one of our group couldn't walk for 2 of the 6 days - his feet were just too sore.  Jake's still so young and it was a massive accomplishment for him.  Yes, it did take a lot of moaning and motivating, but he did it and he can be very proud of himself for that.  He did have a few moments in the evenings, where he threatened to pull out of the hike, but I think that he was completely shattered and it was just exhaustion talking.  This photo was me trying encourage him not to give up.  It helps when your mother can make a poep out of herself...
 The next morning, Jake and I left camp early.  I didn't even have coffee and we munched biscuits for breakfast on our way.  It was the best decision and one that we kept up for the rest of the trail.  Leaving first meant that people caught up to us.  We weren't at the back on our own all the time.  With each person that passed us, our spirits were lifted and we were encouraged to keep on going.  Leaving early also meant that we had shade until the sun came up and that the plants were still covered in dew, which made it really nice and cool on our legs...
Pretty ferns...
 Another early morning river crossing - see Jake's smiling.  Almost...
 Getting river water...
 Stopping to enjoy the view along the way...
 Believe it or not, I didn't actually take very many photos.  My camera was in my camera bag, in my backpack, which was tied up around my chest and waist.  It was a mission to get to it and I needed my hands free to climb every now and then.  I did take it out when we had time.  This is one of Jake's snaps...
 A hungry caterpillar - he looks like he's smiling for the camera...
 This was new year's day - I know because Jake's talking to one of his grannies back at home.  We had so little reception and my phone was off all the time, but somehow it was in my pack and we heard it vibrating, so had reception one one of the peaks...
 I mean, what a place to call from...
 The mountains seem to go on forever...
 It must be so gorgeous during spring time here - the flowers are so bright and pretty...
 Climbing uphill is so tough.  I really struggle with my breathing and my thighs and shins feel like they're going to burst into flames.  When the going got tough, Jake and I would count out 30 steps, then pause to catch our breath.  When you're climbing uphill all you want is a downhill, until you start on a long steady downhill, then you wish for that uphill again.  Downhills hit all your joints and I was really grateful that we'd been advised to each bring a hiking stick with us...
 A lazy lizard...
 Another swim stop...
 I must be honest, I don't like swimming in such cold water.  It's amazing how hot it gets though and a dunk is all that's needed to freshen you up for the next leg.  Jake and I used to wet hats and shirts (him) to keep cool through the day...
 Nom, nom...
 Not looking too happy to be back on the track again...
 Down, down, down we go - I thought my toes were going to pop.  Lesson learned - you need shoes one size bigger for trails...
 I can't remember which hut this was, but another lovely stop, with a pool less than 20m away...
 That's the dormitory with all our washing hanging out to dry...
 I know he's my child and I know I'm biased, but those eyes - they're just so full of love...
 Our braai for the night.  Having porters meant that our dinners could be kept cold (and even frozen) for us and were delivered to the hut for that night.  This hut was my meal - spaghetti bolognese.  It took forever to heat the water up enough to boil the pasta, but it was really yummy when we got it served up - carbs are king...
 Another day, another hike.  Most days, aside from day 1, which was 3.5km, day 2 which was 16.6km and day 6, which was 5.5km, were around 13.5 - 14.5km long.  The weather also cooled further into the trail, so we enjoyed the cooler weather when it reached us.  We took them very slow and made the most out of the experience.  Breakfast with a view...
 More flowers...
 This was our last long day of hiking, so we knew that we were nearing the end of our adventure.  It put a definite spring in Jake's step knowing that he'd nearly completed it.  It was a tough day, with an uphill that went on and on and on and on (yes, I know this is downhill)...
 Striking...
 Jake tended to rush a bit ahead, so that he could sit and wait for me...
 Isn't it awesome??
 More pretty...
 Jake found a blue disa too - how special...
 And that's about it.  There aren't too many more photos than those I've shared here.  Looking back, we had a wonderful time.  It was probably one of the toughest things either of us have ever done, but we did it!  We were told that it was an easy hike, but it was quite technical and the pamphlet at the start said that you needed to be moderately hiking fit, which we weren't.  I'm very proud of us for sticking it out and for coming out champs on the other side.

I have some more photos of other bits and bobs from the holidays that I'll share next week!

Have a lovely weekend,
Sue xxx


Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Just about done...

Where did the year go?  How is it even remotely possible that today's already 20 December?  In less than 2 weeks, we'll be hitting 2017 and it feels like 2016 has only just begun!

Jake and I have had a busy holiday so far.  We had hoped to have a few days to pretty much laze around and do very little; hopefully catch up with friends that we've seen too little of in 2016.  Life has had other plans though and we've been kept on our toes.

Jake's been on holiday for nearly 2 weeks and it's just whizzing by at an alarming rate.  Christmas is this weekend - which in itself is quite shocking.  I still have a fair amount of shopping to do - I'm usually so much better organised and I hate last minute shopping.  Jake's been a complete pain to buy for this year too.  He has everything he needs and the things he wants are expensive.  Christmas feels a little boring without all the magic in the house, so I'm glad to have Corky, Stinky and Gogga to make it a bit more exciting for all of us!  Growing up is not so much fun...

So, what are we doing for the holidays?  Well, besides hoping to spend a night camping on Friday with Jacques' folks down in Kommetjie, Jake and I have quite an adventure planned!  We were invited by friends that we don't know very well, to do the Tsitsikamma trail.  It's a 5-day trek (thankfully mostly portered) and I think I'm fairly poorly prepared for what's in stall for us, but I am really looking forward to just getting away, although I am a little worried about what to pack food-wise.  I guess we won't starve.  I hope.We are spending a couple of days before and after in Mossel Bay and Oudtshoorn, so making a nice little road-trippy holiday out of it.  Jake's never seen the Cango Caves, or any other attractions that side, so I'm looking forward to sharing it with him.  We get home just before school starts again - can you even believe that Jake's going into grade 7?  Last year of primary school.

I've got tenants moving into my house for a few days as of tomorrow and I've been enjoying spending a bit of extra money on our house.  It's time to make it better and while we have some extra money, we may as well tackle it.  I've had the garage roof repaired properly and I'm getting aluminium doors fitted in January.  I'm looking into having downlights installed and replacing internal doors.  And then there's all the photos that I need to print and hang on the walls!!  I've finished my lightroom course, so need to put it into practise.  Hoping to get some pictures online to sell in the new year too.  Oh and I'm doing more courses for work soon too.  2017 is already starting to look crazy!

Anyway, before I run out of time completely, just a note to wish everyone a very blessed festive season.  Keep safe and I hope that all your wishes and dreams come true in 2017.

Love always,
Sue

Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Happy birthday...

It was my dad's birthday last Wednesday and he had his annual birthday party.  Dad loves a party and I guess he has good reason to celebrate his life each year.  Even though he can drive us all mad sometimes, we are lucky to have him and he has been a wonderful dad and grandpa to us all.  He has a great group of friends who love him to pieces too.  Cheers to another happy, healthy year ahead to the best dad in the whole world!

Rosie and Gareth live around the corner and so joined us all for a bite to eat...
 A definite highlight for little Rylee (aka Gogga) was the birthday cake and singing happy birthday - he throws his arms in the air and yells "hooray" as loudly as he can...
 Jake's growing by the minute at the moment and it won't be long before he passes me.  His head is already up to my forehead and I think he's grown about 6 or 7cm since his birthday in May.  His face is changing too - those chubby baby cheeks are a thing of the past...
 Rosie and Rylee listening to Dad's speech...
 In other news, Jake continues to play out of season rugby.  They've got a fantastic coach who trains a small group of them on Saturday mornings.  He's an ex-pro player (for Zimbabwe) and he has done all his formal coaching courses.  He puts a ton of effort in and Jake's confidence in the game has improved in leaps and bounds.  On Saturday morning, they trained at Milnerton rugby fields, which is where Jacques used to play when we were dating.  I have spent many Saturdays watching rugby on those very chairs and that club house was a frequent watering hole after practices/matches...
 Jake was chuffed to be playing on his dad's grounds, but wasn't too keen for me to photograph him in front of his buddies...
 On Sunday we had a little family braai, also for Dad's birthday, this time just for our family.  The weather was magnificent and the kids spent most of the day swimming...
Our kids are all little water babies - they've all done swimming lessons since they were tiny and it's lovely to see them enjoy themselves together...
 Sweet Stinky...
 Corky...
 The Princess again - I daren't tell you what she did to me after I took this photo...
 Jake and Corky had a really good day together.  They haven't seen each other in a while and miss each other a lot.  Corky spoiled Jake with a lego advent calendar, which Jake can't wait to start tomorrow!!  Can you believe it's nearly December?
 My special prince...
 Goggle eyes...
 Rylee's swimming beautifully.  At his proper classes, he isn't allowed arm bands, but at home, generally the grown ups don't stay in as long as the kids.  It did mean that he didn't want to put his face in the water at his lesson on Monday morning though.  He spent hours in the pool on Sunday, just bobbing around with the bigger kids and even after they all got out.  He was a little dried prune...
 At 5, Stinky is very confident in the water and she has been for a while...
 Jump...
 Rylee also had a turn on Jake's shoulders...
 And used Jake's head as a drum...
 A precious moment - Rylee and his Aunty Jo...
I'm really sorry that I've been so bad at blogging.  I am trying to find time to write more often, but life is just crazy...

We had some great news yesterday - Jake's been accepted as a Junior Ranger for 2017, which is a course run by the South African National Parks.  Jake will start on Level one next year and graduates up to the next level once he's completed the full first year's program.  Once he's completed all levels, he will become an honourary ranger of our national parks.  It's right up his street and he is going to learn a lot about indigenous/alien plants, healing plants, animal diversity, dune ecology, healing plants and life on our rocky shores.  They meet once a month and explore different things each month.  It ties in well with his scouts and all these things are helping develop a well-rounded boy, who's goal for the future is to make a difference and to help our wildlife.  I am very proud of Jake for being selected for this program - he was only 1 of 27 kids chosen and I can't wait to watch him grow and learn as he follows this adventure.

Love always,
Sue xxx

Thursday, November 3, 2016

The things I'm up to...

Hi,

Just a quick post - time always seems to be rushing away from me these days!  Life is full and beautiful and Jake and I are looking forward to the up-coming holidays.  How is it possible though?  The year has gone so fast.

The end of the year always feels like a bit of a schelpp.  I hate the build-up to exams and Jake seems to be overwhelmed with homework amidst the studying.  He has decided (on his own) that his lower dose of Concerta actually isn't working properly and so we have upped him back to the 36mg he was on last year.  He's doing really well and trying his best to study as much as he can at the moment.  Sadly, when you have to medicate your kid to get him to focus, it means that once that medication has worn off, there's not much that can be done in the way of studying.  It also means that all Jake's studying needs to be done before 5ish and if he's got extramurals on, that time is very much reduced.  It does mean that evenings are calmer and we have time to enjoy relaxing a bit too.

For me, I've been working hard!!  Things around the office are crazy busy (productive) and I'm really enjoying it most of the time.  We all have not-so-great days at the office, but those are really few and far between for me.

I attended a photography workshop last weeked, called Wild Shots and it was AMAZING!  There were about 15 speakers for the day, who shared their work and I left feeling very humbled and inspired!

I begin another photography course next week, this time for processing my images.  I've never really managed to get the hang of editing and it's about time I did.  It's a 3 week course run in the evenings, just once a week.  I can't wait, because the next step is that I'm going to start working on getting a proper photo website going.  Watch this space!

We are busy planning out 2017 holiday and it's going to be an exciting adventure.  Again, watch this space.  I am doing lots of number crunching to see if we can actually afford to do what we want to do...

In other news, Jake received an award at scouts last night for the most promising scout of the year - I was completely blown away and very surprised, especially considering that Jake HATES sleeping out anywhere and I have been called to camp to fetch him on more than one occassion.

Sending love,
Sue XXX