Friday, March 27, 2015

What a busy week...

 This week has been crazy to say the least and lots and lots of fun at the same time.  Jake's had a fantastic week at school, starting with a whole day of group project work on Monday.  They had to build a tower using paperclips and straws and masking tape.  Jake was very chuffed that their tower was chosen to be used for display later in the year. 

Tuesday was interhouse gala day and Jake was chosen to swim freestyle, backstroke, butterfly and the relay.  He was very excited - it was his first real gala, so he was also very nervous.  Needless to say, I took the day off work, so that I could be there to cheer!  It's always nice to see Jake having some fun with his friends too - be that little fly on the wall for a moment...
 The school has cheer leading committees for the various houses and they each get a turn to put on a little show for the kids.  They love it...
 Getting ready for the relay...
 Jake was the last swimmer for his team and they came 1st!!
 Swim Jake, swimmmm...
 This boy is getting too tall and look how lanky he is now too...
 Getting ready for his freestyle race...
 Just about ready to go - you can see how nervous Jake is.  That's his rugby coach with him...
 Starting blocks and all...
 Jake was doing well at the start, but slowed down on the second lap and came in 4th.  He wasn't too phased by it and I was so full of pride that he'd made it this far.  He did so well...
 Jake's cousin Becky is in grade 7, so still at Primary School with Jake - she's in the far lane...
 Becky and Jake - he's very proud of the fact that his cousin's a prefect...
 The Grade 5 fun race...
 It was a relay race and the whole class had to get back and sit down to win.  That's Jake's teacher too...
 Jake's class came first - they were thrilled.  Not sure what's going on with Jake's ribs in this pic, it looks like he hasn't eaten in months...
 Next up was back stroke.  Jake's backstroke is very cute.  He's very worried about getting his hands moving properly.  Again, he was doing super well, but a bad turn at the end of the first length saw him shift from 2nd to 4th spot...  Better luck next time...
 The rest of the senior primary (the non-swimmers) cheering...  Yellow house won the spirit cup and came in second overall...
 Hahaha... you can see how nervous Jake is here...
 I can't do butterfly to save my life and so it always amazes me how Jake can get it fairly well done at his age...
 And breathe...
 Hahaha... love the bubble frozen in the water in his nostril...
 Becky's really the golden girl of the moment.  She's doing unbelievably well with her swimming at the and managed to break all 4 of the school records at the gala!  She doesn't like us to brag about her swimming and prefers to be quiet in her successes.  She is phenomenal though and gets medals for every event she takes part in, usually all of them.  At the tender age of 12, she's been given a sponsorship through Speedo and it's clear to all of us that she's going places with her swimming We are already saving for our tickets to Tokyo for the 2020 Olympics to cheer her on...
 She's so used to being on the pool deck, she doesn't seem nervous at all...
 After the gala, Jake was exhausted, but still had his usual swimming training to go to, but we'd planned to come home and make jaffles on the fire - Jake was thrilled...
 OK, so we haven't done this in a while and I'm guessing that a hotter fire would've been better.  We waited a while for those toasties, but filled with bolognese, they were worth the wait.  Boy were they good!
 Jake loves cooking over an open fire... he gets that from his dad...
 Checking to see if the toasty's getting toasty yet...
 Wednesday saw Jake heading off to S.O.S. for his first school camp.  He's done a couple of cubs camps now, so he was actually more than OK to go this time, especially since all his friends were going.  I was genuinely very excited for him.  We went S.O.S. too as kids (we were 10) and I can still remember it so clearly. 
 Getting in their class lines...
 Oh my, I've missed this beautiful face...
 Waiting to be allowed onto the bus...
 Jake was apparently very keen to get going...
 But had to wait a few more moments while the teachers gave their instructions.  The mommies all stood back for a bit, but as soon as it was time for the kids to leave, rushed forward for one more kiss (not me - my eyes were leaking and I didn't want Jake to see)...
 All loaded and ready to go!  The kids were chanting "S.O.S" already - my heart went out to the teachers and driver...
 I struggled to find Jake, but eventually found my little facie looking at me through the window, from in the shadows ...
 With a toot-toot and lots of cheering, it was time to go...
 As the mom who's done the camp thing before this with cubs, I think I probably cried more than any other parent there!!  It's different though, when you're a single mom with an only child.  Jake is almost my whole world and everything kind of slows down when he's not around.  My house is cleaner than it's been in a while and I've really had to keep busy.  I had an awesome evening with my mom and dad on Wednesday night - we did some shopping and had dinner out.  Last night I went out with Marius, which is also always good.  But it's the inbetween time that's so quiet and lonely.

Anyway, the bus left S.O.S (in Villiersdorp) about and hour ago and they are due back at school at 1pm.  Our school ommunicator has been down due to a virus on the server and so we have no idea what the kids have been getting up to.  It's super exciting knowing they're on their way home and I cannot wait to get my arms around Jake again!  hahaha... just the thought of makes my eyes well up! Absence really does make the heart grow fonder!  Even just 2 days...

We have an even busier weekend coming up and so I'm already looking forward to Monday morning.

Wishing you all a happy safe weekend!

Love,
Sue XXX

Monday, March 16, 2015

Melons...

 I've been too busy to blog.  I'm sorry to those of you who might stop by here from time to time!  I end up starting and never finishing.  Today I plan to finish a post that I started last Tuesday and have had to abandon numerous times between then and now.

Jake and I had a little braai last Monday evening.  Jake loves the responsibility of making us a meal and of lighting up his own fire - he can stand there and watch the wood or coal burn forever.  On Monday though, he decided to pick the watermelon in his veggie patch.  He'd been disappointed with his harvest this year and the 4 melons that grew, all had holes in them.  Pretty much, he wanted to see the maggot life inside his melon and was sent to the lawn to cut it open and and throw away.  We were stunned when he cracked it open - our melon was perfectly pink inside!  The little hole had made a little scar inside the melon and the fruit was just about perfect, if not slightly over-ripe.  You can see the little scar on the melon at the top.  Needless to say, we chopped it up and scoffed it with our supper...
 A few weeks earlier, Jake had picked his biggest melon - it had 2 holes in it and he left it on the stoep outside our kitchen door.  It was starting to turn yellow and so his search for worms continued...  We were pleasantly surprised...
How much melon can you eat though?  Jake phoned my mom to come fetch some and we took some to Blouberg with us - yum, yum - thank you Jake!!

Speaking of Jake, things are going SO much better for us!  He's admitted to being very jealous of Marius, although he adores Marius.  It's something that we're working on and I'm trying to help him see the happy side of the picture when he feels threatened by it in any way.  It is very cute how protective he is of me and I do appreciate it!  School work is going really well and Jake is busy with his term tests this week.  He works hard and he really does his very best.  I still have to help him quite a bit, but he's becoming more and more independent, which is also lovely to see!  Next week is going to be an exciting week for Jake too - on Monday they're building bridges at school the whole day; Tuesday is the school gala and Jake's swimming finals for 3 strokes!  I've taken the day off to go support him and to take a few photos!  Then from Wednesday - Friday Jake's off to School in the Wilds (SOS).  I'm not quite sure what I'm going to do without him, but he is so freaking excited!!  I am very happy for him and I'm really glad that he's been on a few cubs camps too - he's not nervous at all.  

As for our therapy sessions - they're going well.  Jake's sleeping far better, especially now that he knows there's a reward in it for him.  He seems to be much happier too and so I'm already starting to feel like I made a mountain out of a mole hill.  I think, maybe, that it was just getting back into routine with meds and school and sport, etc that was tough for Jake.  Now that he's back into the swing of things, I feel like I've got my old boy back!  He's been much more respectful and better mannered too, so I'm thrilled. Happy families again!

OK, must dash off again.  Sending lots of love to all my loyals
XXX

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Our little blessing...

 We had a party a few weeks ago!  Our little miracle boy, Rylee, is 1!!  Rosie and Gareth decided to do a farm themed party and went all out to make it a memorable birthday!

 Gorgeous piggy balloons at the doorway...
 Animal party packs for the kiddies to take home at the end of the party...
 They even had a watering hole...
 Welcome to Rylee's farm...
 Rylee was super excited with all the new toys in the garden...
 Gareth's mom, Pat, made the most delicious and gorgeous cupcakes...
 Too cute too eat?  Nah, was too good not to...
 Rosie's cake was outstanding!  Meet Hilux, the farm dog...
 So much trouble taken in all the little details...
 Little mini-scarecrows...
 And gorgeous jars that Jo helped with...  my sisters are so clever...
 The table was full of kid-friendly food (except the speckled eggs, which were such a treat for the big people)...
 Rylee got all cleaned up for his party and I managed to snap a few shots before his friends arrived...
 An angelic moment...
 And then it was time for the party to start!  Corky and Bi were amongst the first to arrive...
 Bi launched herself straight into the ball pit.  She looked gorgeous as always in her new party dress...
 I don't think Rylee, or Trent, knew what had hit them with this busy, giggling girl in their space...
 Corky was a little more reserved and watched from the side for a while...
 Bi had a ball - she's still little enough to get away with enjoying the little kids toys...
 Corky wanted to play, but felt a little self-conscious...
He's a happy kid...
 Rosie and her little man - it was too hot for anything more than a shirt and a nappy...
 Jake was a bit late for the party - he had a cubs thing on, but hopped straight into the ball pit...
 Corky followed and things too a turn for the rougher...
 Michael & Cam followed soon and the other parents quickly removed their babies from the pit.  Our boys had fun...
 And Marius made sure that they took regular breaks so the little ones could enjoy their party.  Cam's reached the photo stage Michael was at a while ago - has to pull a face for the camera...
 Farm pudding...
Rylee and his big cousin Bi...
Rylee's daddy's really funny...  This is my favourite photo of the day...  look at all his teeth!!!
 And look at his gorgeous eyes...
 You can only do that to Auntie Sue - because she does it back...
 Rylee's hair's definitely red.  We wondered for a long time how red it would be and it turns out that it's the gorgeous kind...
 Hey blue eyes - I love you...
 Gareth with his birthday boy...
 Munch munch - finger biscuits are the best...
 Little Miss...
 Michael...
 Jake...
 Cameron...
  Rylee-roo...AKA Gogga...
 He loves watching the other kids, so sweet to see him starting to be a bit interactive...
 No words...
 Corky and Bi also got into the dressing up, de-facing the pigs thing...
Nini and Pa with the birthday boy...
Rylee was starting to get very tired...
  LOL... Cam decided to stay in his costume, even eating his jelly around the nose...
 Rylee perked up for the singing...
 And all his cousins helped him to blow out his candles...
 Getting stuck into his cake...
 Rylee was finished and Rosie tried to get him to snooze in his hammock, but he was not missing a thing!  Nini & Pa ended up taking him home for a much-needed nap...
So to Rylee, a very big happy birthday!  I know I'm very late putting these pictures up and wishing you, but things have been crazy busy lately.  I hope that you enjoyed your very first birthday and I hope that we are all around to share many more with you.  You're such a gorgeous little boy and we love you so much!  It's been such fun watching you grow from a little blob, into a bouncing little boy.  It's hard to imagine our lives without you!

Lots of love,
Sue XXX